“Too much coin” can be a bit of a misnomer. It’s used to describe a situation in which you are talking too much, but it can be a result of a lot of things. In my case, it’s a result of my addiction to talking.
Talking about how much to spend on a purchase is a common problem. Although many people would argue that excessive talking is a good thing, or even a necessary part of the buying process. But excessive talking can also cause problems if you are a part of a crowd who uses talk as a means of communication. When people talk too much, they often become louder, more emotional, and less able to control themselves.
Talking too much can make you feel self-conscious, and then your mind will start to wander. I’ve had some success with “stopping” myself when I’m making an aggressive or impulsive decision by telling myself, “I’m going to stop talking, that’s cool.
If you try to talk too much, you are likely to say things that you didn’t mean even when you meant them. People who talk a lot, however, are often the type who never mean to, and most of the time they just don’t care. But these people are usually the ones who are most aware of their words, and when they use them, it makes you feel like you are being judged.
This is really a topic that you have to talk about with a therapist if you decide to do it. A lot of people who have ADHD have been diagnosed as having a condition known as “hypervigilant,” where they are so aware of your words that they are constantly monitoring them. Most of these people who have this disorder have a hard time saying no to people, or giving honest feedback about their performance.
I can’t tell you the number of people who have been told that they are a horrible person because they spoke too loudly, or did something without thinking, or were too loud. You have to talk about all of that with someone, and especially if you are in public. It makes you feel like you are being judged, and you have to own it. If you do say “yes” to a situation, find a way to control it.
It’s okay to talk. A lot of people have trouble saying no.
Speaking too loudly is a sure fire way of getting a lot of bad feedback from your peers, but it can backfire if your peers are doing it to you. It’s like asking someone to leave a party because you are too loud.
In all seriousness, it’s about time everyone took their own advice. You don’t have to do this to everybody, just make sure you are doing it.
We all get a lot of advice from our peers. It’s about time we took some of it to heart and practiced saying no. If we don’t, we are all likely to get bad feedback, and that will likely lead to many bad decisions. A lot of people talk too much. A friend of mine recently told me he wanted to buy a car. For some reason, he thought it would be a better idea to talk about the car than to actually buy the car.